Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Kolt Roy Jones
Kolt Roy Jones
Born: December 11, 2010
(12/11/10 that should be easy to remember;)
Weight: 7 lbs 10 oz
Height: 21 in
the birth story:
the birth story:
Having four ultrasounds and all confirming Kolt was measuring a week big,
I was a little nervous about waiting to deliver at 40 weeks pregnant.
My last ultrasound showed Kolt weighing 7 lbs.
with one month left to go,
meaning he could be around 9 lbs or more at 40 weeks.
Having that in the back of my mind and the fact that Aaron's finals week for his masters program
was December 13th -16th, Kolt was due on the 18th.
I was worried if I was to go into labor myself in that last week,
Aaron would not be able to be there.
I know this happens where women go into labor and there
husband for what ever reason is unable to be there,
but I didn't know if I could do that.
Aaron is always a big support for me and I NEED HIM THERE!
The last concerning element for me was the weather, the roads had been icy and
I was REALLY nervous about having a baby at home or in the car,
not my cup of tea, if you know what I mean.
So my doctor and I early on in my pregnancy had
planned on inducing one week early,
which happened to be my birthday.
This was the plan up until the week before my scheduled induction date
I go to my appointment only to hear my doctor say,
I am going to let you go full term,
maybe longer,
and don't worry we will be monitoring your babies size,
and out of the room he went.
My jaw just dropped.
WHAT?
Maybe let me go past my due date and you are monitoring my babies size?
HOW?
The last ultrasound had been two weeks ago and I hadn't had one since.
Feeling my temperature rising,
and knowing Shanae-nae was wanting to break free (my mean self)
I decided to keep my mouth shut and waited to confront him the following week.
All week long I was wondering what his reason was for this decision.
Was he confused? Did he have me mixed up with someone else?
The day finally came for my appointment, it was a Thursday, two days before
my once scheduled induction.
I really wanted to be calm and not cry but after waiting over an hour and a half
in the waiting room, (which was normal in this office)
I was in tears before I got into the room.
When the doc came into the office he asked, what was wrong?
I just went off, I asked him why he changed his mind about the induction,
and if there was something that was concerning him,
I wanted to know if thought I should get a c-section, etc.
He just asked me what I wanted to do and said he was not concerned about inducing me.
He is always really vague with me and just not helpful, it was frustrating.
I told him I still wanted to be induced, he asked for when, I said today, tomorrow what ever is available.
He called the hospital and put me on a waiting list which was weird for me,
You just wait around for the hospital to call you and tell you there is room for you to come in.
He then stripped my membranes and said maybe this will help you start into labor yourself,
then as I was leaving the office he decided to inform me that if I was to go to the hospital
on Friday that Dr. Lorenzo, his partner, whom I had never met, would be delivering the baby.
For some reason he was afraid to tell me he would be gone for the weekend.
So I waited all day Thursday and nothing, Friday, nothing,
ok now Saturday was my birthday,
so I called the hospital that morning and asked them if it was a possibility
that I would be coming in, they said it looked like Monday would be the soonest.
At this point I decided to take things into my own hands.
I drank a concoction of 1 egg, 2 cups of vanilla ice cream, 2 tbls of heavy whipping cream and
2 oz of castrol oil.
Yes, I did.
And it worked like magic.
I drank it at noon.
One hour later the side affects started and by 4:30 pm my contractions started.
We dropped the kids off at Yount's house,
and headed into the hospital by 6:00 pm,
the snow was falling and I was nervous about
bad roads, so we were on our way to get this party started.
When we got to Kadlec Medical Center they put us in a room to check if I was dilated
and hooked me up to monitors to check my contractions.
I was dilated to a 3 and they decided that was enough to put me in a room.
After in my room I had asked for an epideral before they broke my water.
They were getting me hooked up to IV's and taking my blood
and having us sign consent forms when we came to the VBAC consent form.
The nurse who brought it to us was anti-vbac and wanted to make sure
we totally understood all the ins and outs of it.
Of course we didn't know all the risks since my doctor had not informed us.
After reading over it and Aaron giving me a blessing and praying we decided to
do a c-section. Aaron was just to nervous about the risks.
It was a hard decision, I was worried about my recovery and the fact
that it would limit the how many kids we could have.
c-sections are must so weird to me, you just go into a room,
they cut you open and the next thing you know you hear your baby crying.
It always makes me cry when I first hear my babies cry.
When they first showed me Kolt I thought he looked just like Krew.
After Kolt ate for a few hours he slept for 12 hours.
I would try to feed him and he just wanted to sleep.
I was concerned and kept asking the nurse if this was OK.
She assured me he would be fine.
He was fine but he did lose more weight then they liked.
He lost 10 oz. so he was just 7 lbs.
Then they were worried about jaundice.
The poor guy got poked 3 times.
He started eating like a champ and it was just a mild case of jaundice so he is just fine.
Now a week later, I am so glad I have my sweet baby boy and my recovery has been
AMAZING.
It has not been bad AT ALL!
I am a bad photographer, I did not get a picture of the whole family together in the hospital.
When Kali and Krew came to visit,
Kali came right in and wanted to hold Kolt and wanted to feed him and help with him.
Krew on the other hand did not want anything to do with him.
He just ran over to the other bed and played around
while watching How to Train your Dragon on TV.
I asked him if he wanted to hold his brother and he said. NO.
Kolt getting love from me, Kali, and Grandma
Kolt's poor little foot was pricked 3 times, checking for jaundice. so sad.
As soon as Kolt was brought home Krew was very interested in him and wanted to do
all the things he was doing.
He wanted to sit in a car seat and drink a bottle and have a blanket.
That only lasted for the day, now Krew is becoming protective of his brother
saying, "that is my baby brother Kolt."
Krew if very gentle with him.
Both Kali and Krew LOVE HIM!
Thursday, December 9, 2010
getting ready for the holidays.....and baby
We headed to the mall yesterday to go see Santa and get or annual pictures:)
Kali was so cute, she was nervous about remembering everything she wanted to ask
Santa for, for christmas. She seriously repeated the list to me 100 times and
then would ask, "am I forgetting anything?"
She asked him for a world globe, computer, dinosaur book,
reindeer puppet (not sure what that is, she came up with this one while in line?),
and Toy Story 3 the movie.
Krew just asked Santa for candy:)
I was nervous to see how Krew would react to Santa, since the past years
he wanted NOTHING to do with Santa.
This year, he ran up and sat on his lap and gave us a big ol' smile.
While at Costco, I picked up one of these gems.
A pre-built gingerbread house, all you have to do is decorate it.
This had my name written all over it.
PERFECT!
I put on the icing, the kids put on the candy.
It was a great time!
Can you tell which one is ours:)
I know, I struggle, but as least I try.
I should have let Kali put on the icing, she may have done a better job.
I have been trying to make sure I have everything accomplished before this baby comes.
Decorating the Chrismas tree √, Christmas shopping √, Picture with Santa √, Gingerbread house √,
getting kids caught up on shots...
Since I moved to WA, I took the kids to the doctor when we first moved here.
I think they had gotten sick and I thought I should find a doctor around here for them,
so I did, and they have not gotten sick all year and I have been lazy and slacked on their
shots. I thought I better get this all taken care of before the baby comes.
So we go.
5 shots for Kali and 4 shots for Krew,
and a thumb prick for each to test for anemia.
Kali had been nervous for awhile about getting shots and wondering if it would hurt.
Well let me tell you I have one TOUGH cookie.
She did not cry AT ALL.
The nurse what shocked, she could not believe Kali wasn't crying,
she even told Kali she could cry if she wanted, but nothing.
Seriously the stinking nurse was acting more nervous than Kali.
Poor Krew on the other hand, cried when he got is shots,
and said, "please, no more." It was cute and sad.
He stopped crying though and soon as she was done with the shots.
They both got succors and stickers, which made everything better for Krew.
Krew was funny, he got up on the counter and stuck his head in the corner and said,
"mom, take a picture of me."
So of course I ran and grabbed my camera, he never lets me take his picture.
One more thing on the agenda before the little one is born.
Take the kids to see Tangled.
THEY LOVED IT!!!
I did to:)
and I may have shed a few tears.
Kali had to comfort me.
She gave me a hug and told me it would be OK:)
The kids both got popcorn and a treat.
I wish I could remember which preview Krew was watching here,
but he had a kung fu grip on his popcorn and Rolo.
In case you were wondering we went to the 4:02 showing.
How funny is that:)
Saturday, December 4, 2010
christmas tines
Decorating the christmas tree, setting up the nativity, and wrapping presents,
while listening to Christmas music just puts a smile on your face.
There is just something about Christmas that brings excitement.
Our ornaments consisted of these red balls and candy canes, for about a day.
The candy canes were cute but the kids could NOT keep their hands off of them
so now we just have red balls on our mini tree that
grandma bought for us before she left to travel the world,
watching Coriann play basketball.
Kali loved helping me wrap all the gifts we need to send to our cousins.
Our family picks names and this year we had my brother Brandon's family.
Kali was so excited to write who they belonged to.
Thankful
This was Kali's list of what she is thankful for.
This year I would have to say the thing that sticks out most in my mind is how thankful I am
for my family.
We have spent more hours together this year than ever before.
I am so thankful for my children.
They keep me in line. I have no choice but to progress.
I have to be a good example to them, and children make you do what you say you will do.
I learn daily from them.
My husband.
What an amazing man.
I know he was made just for me.
He compliments me.
He keeps me on my toes.
He knows how to make me laugh.
He loves me.
I am so thankful for him in my life.
He is an excellent father.
I love watching him play and interact with the kids.
He knows how to motivate Kali in a way that no one else can.
His kids adore him.
I am so thankful for my parents.
They have made this year so comfortable for us.
They are the most giving and generous people.
They have always and continue to be a huge example in my life.
I am thankful that we have been able to see and spend time with
so much of our family this year.
I am so thankful for my family!
Sunday, November 28, 2010
baby shower
Ok the picture you have all been waiting for.
The picture I have been procrastinating,
because lets face it 9 month prego pics are
not the most flattering:)
This pic was taken my Kali Jones Photography.
This was the AWESOME baby shower Candice Walker put together for me!
Thanks again Candice, it was PERFECT :)
SO MUCH YUMMY FOOD and
WONDERFUL WOMEN to chat with.
Some fun presents for Kolt.
Auntie Crystal Beazer sent a fun package with burp cloths and a sports sleeper.
Auntie Marcie Barberich gave him two fabulous Dallas Cowboy sleepers
and his first Dallas Cowboys book.
Grandma Cheryl gave him the cutest football sweater!
Auntie Marcie Barberich gave him two fabulous Dallas Cowboy sleepers
and his first Dallas Cowboys book.
Grandma Cheryl gave him the cutest football sweater!
And the blankets were ALL handmade,
the top one by my FABULOUS laurel girls,
the second one by Susan Hawkins,
the third one by Tricia Freeman (OK I think she bought hers, but it is SO SOFT, LOVE IT)
the fourth one by the amazing and talented Kirsten
and look at all those fun baby boy clothes!!
Thank you to EVERYONE!!!!
Thank you to EVERYONE!!!!
Now it is time for Kolt to arrive!
Kali and I went and took a tour of the Kadlec Medical Center together @ 7:00 a.m.
Yes, that was their only available time for a tour so we got up at 5 to leave by 6 and arrive by 7.
After the tour we headed over to IHOP for some breakfast.
Kali ordered these fun pancakes and I tried their pumpkin pancakes, which I LOVED!
I LOVE PUMPKIN ANYTHING!!!!
We both had some yummy hot chocolate and enjoyed a relaxing time eating and chatting:)
I was surprised my belly fit into the booth, I was a little worried:)
When I went to my baby appointment later that day, I had a ultrasound and
he has his tongue sticking out and, they took a picture of that,
after which he put his thumb in his mouth.
I think he knows how badly I don't want him to suck his thumb,
he is just showing me, he is going to anyway.
he has his tongue sticking out and, they took a picture of that,
after which he put his thumb in his mouth.
I think he knows how badly I don't want him to suck his thumb,
he is just showing me, he is going to anyway.
Kolt was measuring a week bigger then he should.
He was 7 pounds and I still had a month left,
which means if I went full term he would be over 9 pounds.
My other two were 8 pounds.
I think I will stick to my plan of inducing a week early
if he doesn't want to come, I don't know like TOMORROW!
I am scheduled to induce on my birthday Dec. 11.
Everyone has their own feelings on this but I am turning 31,
and I am not bummed about spending my birthday in a hospital where
I get to rest and relax and be fed what ever I want whenever I want.
AND it will be a WONDERFUL day when this little man comes out.
I just CAN NOT WAIT to see him and get to start losing weight again.
Mentally I have struggled with gaining weight this pregnancy, but we will leave
that for a whole different post.
snow in WA
We had our first snow day in Washington on November 22.
I thought I was going to escape the snow at the cabin,
guess not, it has become a winter wonderland around here.
The snowflakes were SO BIG, it was magical.
Krew was determined to weather the snow in ONLY his coat and shoes,
and it was a fight getting his shoes on.
He really is a true Hawaiian boy at heart,
I have the hardest time keeping clothes on that kid.
He didn't stay out to long,
He made it to the trampoline than turned around and decided it was time to come in.
This was taken TODAY after church.
Kali posed for me, and wanted a shot by herself posing,
so Krew watched...
and posed himself:)
Than it was time to go inside.
Today was Kali's big day to give her scripture in primary and she did OUTSTANDING!!
She had the whole things memorized.
She recited D&C 4:2
Therefore, O ye that embark in the aservice of God,
see that ye bserve him with all your
heart, might, mind and strength,
that ye may stand cblameless before God at the last day.
Then she added, I like this scripture because it reminds me of the Good Samaritan
when he helped the man who had been beaten by the robbers and no one else would help him.
I want to serve like him.
Everyone was so impressed that she had it all memorized.
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